``Friendliness''

So I realised that I cannot stand one kind of ``friendliness'' that some people practise---the kind where they are obviously trying to be friendly, to the point of being loquacious and obnoxious. Don't get me wrong, I think it is great that people are trying to erm talk to me and all. But the overzealous form of trying to talk to me doesn't make me feel interested---I actually feel more guarded because I think that you actually want something from me, which is how I have been conditioned from the past.